Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt
You are NOT supposed to bleed
If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.
This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.
I just really want women to know this.
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[2/5] favourite TV-shows: teen wolfIt all started that night, the night I got bitten. Do you remember the way it was before that? You and me, we were - we were nothing. We weren’t popular. We weren’t good at lacrosse. We weren’t important. We were no one.
The enemy has the advantage but we have to fight on for those we’ve lost so the sacrifices they made were not made in vain. And then we disappear, become g h o s t s, that’s how we have to live now, in the s h a d o w s, to protect the innocent and save lives, even when they don’t know it. - (x)